My boyfriend always rushes to shower after we have sex. Is this normal? He swears it has nothing to do with me, but I’ve got to admit – I feel offended. I want to cuddle after sex, but I feel like he just wants to rush up and get clean.
Not all men shower right after sex, but it sounds like it’s something your boyfriend likes. There is nothing wrong with him showering, but you’ve got to get your cuddle time too!
We see two options for you: You can wait while he showers and cuddle after he’s done, or you can alternate the timing of shower and cuddle, asking him to cuddle first sometimes. This is an excellent way to start communicating your needs with your boyfriend.