Taking time to decide whether or not you’re ready to have sex is a good thing. The bottom line is, only you can decide when you’re ready. There’s no right or wrong time, and there’s definitely no rush, no matter how many months you’ve been with someone. It’s something only you and your partner can decide. A partner that truly loves and cares for you will respect your decision no matter what you decide.
Talking with your partner about having sex is a good thing to do before getting caught up in the heat of the moment – especially so you can get prepared with everything you need to practice safer sex. Try sharing your feelings about being less experienced. You’ll probably find out that she doesn’t care about that. But either way, if you want to do something to be closer to someone, there’s no better way than to be totally honest and open about your feelings.
If you do choose to become sexually active, use protection to help prevent unplanned pregnancy and transmission of STDs.
Hope this helps.