I have been with the same guy for a year now but he will not stop cheating on me. I’ve tried to leave him, but every time he comes back I can’t resist him. I’m wondering if I should just leave it alone and try to be friends. Or is it okay to call him for comfort?
You said it yourself in your letter- you are comfortable with this pattern, so it makes sense why you are having such a hard time leaving it. The problem is that the situation which you are comfortable with is totally unhealthy for you. A guy who is as inconsistent as the guy you describe is not a real partner in an ongoing relationship.
Try not to let this man back into your life; feeling desired is not a good enough reason. Stay strong. If you find yourself having moments of temptation, call a friend instead. Or write to us. Good luck.